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Thursday, December 20, 2007

Subjective world..

This world is so unpredictable and everyday we encounter new challenges and we see new things.. Some might be foreign to us but not to others and vice versa.. but I believe that if we put our differences aside, we can live happily together.. We may be distinguish ourselves based on religion, race , sexuality,groups and countries but one thing is for sure, we are all humans and the task of making all of us understand that no matter how different we are, we are all just human and we seek for peace..and this task will be tough as there are so many environmental factors, emotions and self characteristics to be taken account into this matter... I have been observing something and it is hard for me to voice it here but I'll just talk about it.. Recently, I have encountered mant cases regarding homosexuality, bisexuality and the list goes on.. As fast as technology is growing these topics are also getting more and more popular in our society.. I always ask myself.Is someone born gay because he is gay? or is it because it is their choice to be gay? Until today I am still asking myself.. and I was wondering to myself.. Guys and girls when they are together they produce children how about man and man or woman with woman? what will they produce? This is really not a joke statement and obviously being a Biology student I know the same gender doesn't produce babies.. this question is more subjective than how you look at it..Hmm.. but one thing I have noticed is that no matter how different a person is outside, everyone needs love and care from others.. and after encountering many experiences myself ( please NOTE that I wasn't involve in any gay relationships but somehow I was involved in that topic), I think it is not wrong being gay/bisexual as long as they don't harm others.. Why others must discriminate them as if they have killed someone and one more thing I would like to relate here is that.. so what someone is different from the others(not only regarding the topic of discussion)? Isn't he/she is happy with what he/she is doing.. as long as he/she don't go over the boundaries, I don't think there is a reason why we should avoid such people.. Befriending them doesn't make us one of them, everyone has the freedom of choice..So, it is fair enough for us to respect their choice.. I am not posting this blog entry to promote that gay/lesbian relationships are good and should be encouraged but as long as they do not harm us.. why should we care? I know some might have gone overboard.. Like what I have said.. I was somehow involved .. my girl friend and my friend knows about this and they call me gay magnet? what the heck??? hahahaa.. I do attract girls too ya know.. you want me to list them out?? ;)-- btw I love my gf ,I love my gf .l love my gf!!! incase she is going to chop me up after reading the previous sentence.

Come to think about it, myself am surprised why I actually wrote all these.. but I can proudly say that I have friends who are gay.. and most of them are very nice and sincere people.. not to forget talented too.. I respect them like how they respect me and like how we should respect everyone.. I think something inspired me to write this entry today.. maybe it was the talk I had with Bernard this morning regarding this topic..and to people like Lynnett(the crazy friend of mine) don't start mmaking funny statements ..ehheh..Lastly " Treat others like how you want them to treat you!"..

If you want to comment about my views, please feel free to do so.. I also want to know what do you think and what you have to say..


Sincerely from,

VicK~DomiNiC

3 comments:

Christina Lim said...

Now u want to brag about ur magnectivity lar? Lolz.. Yalar... u mmg guy and girl magnet lar... hehe.. Dun worry. I wun chop u to pieces. Juz grind u. Haha.. like wat we discussed over the phone juz nw. Hahakz...

Jack'a'holic said...

nice blog.. :)

Anonymous said...

hey vic. kesian u la. saja post some nonsense here since u're 'collecting opinions' from ur readers. haha.. anyway, wat u said is true. it is insensible to think that gays and bisexuals actually CHOOSE to be like that. who would wanna be alienated and labelled abnormal lah?? ppl who discriminate against them just dont understand them i guess. or perhaps they're afraid of them cos' they have the misconception that gays and bisexuals are bad people, since, in the eyes of others, they're 'abnormal'. well, come to think of it, gay people are actually among the nicest people around. and i personally believe that this is so, because they have a better understanding of the world and the people around them, considering that they've gone through much discrimination and criticism by others. i just think that they avoid doing onto others what has been done onto them, cos' they know how it feels. i think this is why they're relatively nicer than the average person. anyway, don't wanna crap d lah.. u ah.. ask ppl to leave comments but u urself only know how to promote ur blog in other ppl's blogs. tsk tsk.. shame on u. haha.. k lah.. c ya around ;p